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PostPosted: Sat Feb 25, 2012 9:59 pm 
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OK so obviously I haven't read all 14 pages of this thread, but here is my two cents....for whatever its worth...

Sometimes people get overly-offended by the smallest things.
Let's say you *really* want a photo, but she has zero time at all and has to dash.
Some people in the world really will interpret that as "being a bitch".
I suspect that a lot of the supposedly "bad attitude" comes from people being a bit disappointed and getting angry over it, thus blowing it all out of proportion.

Maybe I'm wrong, who knows.

I do recall the story of the girl who shoved her violin bow through the tour bus window and freaked everybody out. How rude! I believe the same person then went on to vandalize the bus somehow...
OF COURSE she's going to tell everyone that EA is a bitch. Because some people really are that weird...

All I'm saying is that whenever I hear a supposed tale about mistreatment of muffins, I always take it with a pinch of salt. It could be as simple as someone getting overly worked-up about the smallest thing...or, like the girl I just mentioned, pushing too hard to get what they want and invoking a harsh reaction.


EDIT: Also, I once twatted Emilie saying that I hate it when people compare female artists, hated the whole "who copied who thing" and wished that such nonsense would go away. Yes, I referred to Gaga too. And you know what? She twatted back and was perfectly nice about it. So I think its all down to the way we speak/write. A certain tone can come off as harsh, even if you don't mean it. I admit, I'd be crushed if EA had been hard on me too, but we're all only human and we all have bad days.

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... People just now are hearing about the Atlanta incident?

If you go through Inkydust's posts, he has a long post explaining everything that happened. Despite whatever I have against EA, she had every right to be pissed.


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... People just now are hearing about the Atlanta incident?

If you go through Inkydust's posts, he has a long post explaining everything that happened. Despite whatever I have against EA, she had every right to be pissed.


I've been in a venue before where the neighbouring room made quite a bit of noise, which didn't especially bother me, but I must say that in the video of the EA show incident it did seem unacceptably loud. It must be very distracting to have that going on the entire time. That being said, I think maybe she was more annoyed about it than the muffins really were. Still, I guess if you're trying to put on a show you really don't need the added stress.

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^^I'm sorry, but where did Inky post this? Could you possibly link me?

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^ I know you're not referring to me but I looked for it too and here's the quote...


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I think you're talking about the Masquerade in Atlanta.

I was there. Here's what happened. The Masquerade is a club converted from an old mill. It's made up of three levels named, "Heaven", "Hell", and "Purgatory". EA was performing in "Heaven" and another artist was performing in "Hell".

Now imagine you're at home enjoying a nice cup of tea and listening to some classical music, when all of the sudden, you're downstairs neighbor starts a rave in his apartment. That was what it was like in "Heaven". We came to see EA, not hear house music. It in many ways spoiled the show, because it made it hard to hear them talk, in some instances. Emilie, in my opinion, rightfully yelled at the management for this. At one point she said ,"Either you shut it down or WE will shut it down." Needless to say the management took a dim view of this. They called the police because they were afraid a couple hundred muffins were going to actually do this and they would have a riot on their hands. Then they called the Fire Marshal, because Emilie kept threatening to bring out the fire portions of the show, after they told her she wouldn't be able to do it at the Masquerade.

This was not the show EA & BC, wanted to bring to Atlanta. Emilie anger at the Masquerade was tempered by the actions of the Atlanta muffins. She called us "Civilized". Some had flown in or driven hours to see her.She said muffins at any other show would be up in arms.

I hope Emilie comes back to Atlanta soon and does the show she wanted to do.



Okay... looking at this objectively, I can see why the management thought EA's attitude was a bit off.

If she wants to do parts of a show involving fire and the like, it's not suprising that some places would not allow this. I do wonder if this was discussed in advance, because if it was, and the concert was booked regardless, there is really nothing the muffins or performers can get annoyed at.

As for the music downstairs... It's a rave. The music will be loud. Once again, my view on this would depend on how the venue and EA's organisers handled the booking - if all parties were aware of the dual booking, once again nothing can be complained about. And even if it wasn't, you cannot blame a venue for wanting to use two thirds of it's space. As long as EA was made aware in advance that she would not be the only performer, I can't see the issue. And it seems not to have occured to anyone that this was probably a two-way street. Chances are they could hear EA's violin screeching over some neatly arranged beats. Noise carries through both ways.

And even if it wasn't a serious threat to "shut it down" (which reads to me as trashing the venue - please correct me if I'm wrong), what were the venue meant to do? Had EA's muffins got carried away and started damaging property, assaulting staff, causing trouble, the police would've been a bloody good idea. It's better to be safe than sorry - particularly when you're a venue and could be liable for anything that happens to your staff.

I do not think in all honesty that EA would've trashed the venue, or that the muffins would have trashed the venue. But they don't know EA, only what they saw on stage. And by the sounds of it, what they saw on stage was intimidating.

Please don't mistake this as a swipe at EA, I love her live shows.
But I can see why the venue were unhappy.


Well the fact is the Masquerade signed the contract which clearly states "No other acts" scheduled when EA performs. Done; with a breach of contract. That the other show is on a different floor starts the minutia of all things shitty and disingenuous.

LTJ Bukem was to start @ 11pm. That is when the downstairs manager said it would have to get loud, but he would keep it down before that. EA starts @ 9 so there would be 1/2 overlap. Ok, fine. She agrees to that arrangement.

This arrangement did not happen and indeed, 15 minutes into the show the boom-boom started. I believe it was intentional.

I read 96 to 98 dBs c-weighted of their music COMMING THRU THE FLOORS!!! EA's theatrical show maxes out at 103 dBs. Their volume thru the floor almost rivals her show's peak.
And her violin @ 93-95 dBs. That would NOT have gone thru the floors to overpower what must have been 110dBs of music downstairs.

Fire was a no-no from the beginning. None of that gear was unloaded from the trailer. There was no fire to perform. EA used this threat to get ANY kind of answer from the venue's GM as he was not around when Hell's music started early.
Was this a job for the tour manager? Yes. However,the TM was proving inadequate in many of his functions up to and including this gig and EA felt the need to interact directly with ANYONE from the venue.

Professionalism was discarded by the venue WELL before EA took stage and continued well thru her set.

Two funny observations: At some point during EA's second plea for venue assistance, the lighting guy leans over to me and says in all seriousness "If she keeps this up, she will never be able to play here again!". That was so funny because about 10 minutes after we first arrived EA had to ask why the artist toilet was plugged up with fecal matter and the floor flooded to the door! "Do they not know there is a show tonight?" Add to this the mirror-less and power outlet-less shit-holes of a "dressing room" and she determined she would never play there again. How was the light guy to know that though...haha. It was a funny moment of me thinking "Yeah, she's really worried about that..."

The other was when the police and fire arrived to the venue to respond to the plea of help from the endangered GM. There the viscous, unruly rock...punk..no, thrash...um...pretty girls in corsets running around throwing bottles...bricks...mic stands...um, no...cookies and muffins, were on stage singing satanic...hate...um...dramatic songs of love, live and suffering.
"You called us out for THIS..." The look of APD/AFD was priceless I am told. One of the former murder capitals of America...yeah APD has time for this.

That reminds me of the Holy Grail skit where Lancelot is rescued from the castle of women because he was in "Great peril!"

If I had the energy I would also sarcastically describe the ravenous crowd the muffins are, equally in corsets and makeup and heels and such. But you get the point by now. These were the ones that were going to riot. Right...

It is easy to see how speculation can meander around without details but I just described a good portion of them. And while we are casting words of un-professionalism at EA, know that she caught a miserable cold by greeting her VIP ticket holders as well as general muffins outside for THREE hours in the 54 degree Atlanta night. Why, because the venue was continuing its unprofessional behaviour and giving the TM grief about having the VIP greet in the building AS CONTRACTED. What's that? Another breach of contract....

[sarcasm] Yeah, EA over reacted...[/sarcasm]

As to the OP, as far as the conversation EA had directly with the owner, from what I can tell, he was so glad she was playing there. In fact, he originally turned the show down because he didnt think his venue would do the production justice.

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It's from this topic.


When I watched the video I was a bit freaked out by her behavior because I'm used to seeing her being more calm and only being aggressive in an "acting" or "performing" way but after reading Inky's comment on the issue I feel that her anger was justifiable. She wanted to give her muffins the best show possible and the venue was screwing with her.

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Now I can fully understand her anger. The venue owners/managers are clearly very unprofessional. I think she felt worse for her muffins than herself, in case they didn't get their money's worth.

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I think EA had the right to be angry, but I feel bad for any employees in the vicinity that had done no wrong and got screamed at.

I know people have screamed at me because someone else messed up, and I think that if a powerful woman and a couple hundred of her muffins were angry with me I'd be terrified.

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Dolly wrote:
I think EA had the right to be angry, but I feel bad for any employees in the vicinity that had done no wrong and got screamed at.

I know people have screamed at me because someone else messed up, and I think that if a powerful woman and a couple hundred of her muffins were angry with me I'd be terrified.


Yes, that much I do agree with. Its no fun being blamed for someone else messing up (yup, happens to me too, as it does to us all occasionally). But hey, when we're angry I guess we're not thinking about that. Goodness knows that when I'm angry the first person I see is usually the one to get it in the neck, much to my shame...

EDIT: Ever so slightly off-topic, but I really do know how it feels to be treated badly by someone you love/admire greatly. Its happened to me and it left me utterly devastated. I really hope that a lot of the drama I hear about is blown out of all proportion, because EA really doesn't seem like the type to be mean on purpose. I think she's a lot like me....I tend to simply react on the spur of the moment rather than taking a second to consider what I'm about to say. But trust me, little storms in a teacup over on twitter are nothing compared to some of the things I've had hurled at me by another female artist. I won't say who. I'm just saying that as drama's go, there are nastier people out there.

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Without reading the post from inkydust, I had already formed my own opinion of what was going on when I watched the video. This is an old topic, yes, but just for kicks I'm going to put in my little blurb.
There should be no noise coming through from the floor above or below if two acts are going on at the same time. If there is noise, then the venue should know that their floors are not dense enough to block the sound, and therefore should not double book shows. As an artist, this would piss me off too.
After reading inkydusts post, well...it just gives even more justification to an artist performing under those conditions the right to be really really angry at the management.

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Dolly wrote:
I think EA had the right to be angry, but I feel bad for any employees in the vicinity that had done no wrong and got screamed at.

I know people have screamed at me because someone else messed up, and I think that if a powerful woman and a couple hundred of her muffins were angry with me I'd be terrified.

If it makes you feel better, the employees at the Masquerade are, as a rule, quite rude. I was there that night; not only was the noise from the other floors incredibly loud, but EA tried asking nicely for someone to come talk to her about what could be done several times. She only got angry after several polite requests for an employee to come talk were ignored by the venue. Of course, people don't usually mention that part.

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After hearing about it through this thread I went looking for the "Emilie Autumn Confessions" Tumblr blog. I wish I hadn't. Honestly, I've never seen such a load of old crap in my life.

I'm not for one moment suggesting that we all have to like everything she makes, agree with everything etc. But my goodness, a lot of these complaints lack basic common sense.

For example....

People whining that her book is expensive and its a "rip-off".
Have you seen the size of it?!
Common sense should tell you that a book of THAT size, with an epic amount of pages, each one very carefully graphic designed and illustrated, in full COLOUR no less is hardly going to be cheap. I'd say its a very reasonable price indeed.

Another example is that people are saying the book has no "trigger warnings". Apparently they'll never forgive EA for it. I'm sorry, but come on, seriously? It is NO secret at all that the book is about mental illness, suicide, cutting, meds, doctors, asylums etc. No secret whatsoever. It hardly needs a warning tag, the content is not exactly shrouded in mystery.

Like I said, by all means have an opinion and feel free - you ARE free - to go against the popular opinion. But really, a little basic common sense goes a long way. I honestly feel like some of these complaints were just made for attention.

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After hearing about it through this thread I went looking for the "Emilie Autumn Confessions" Tumblr blog. I wish I hadn't. Honestly, I've never seen such a load of old crap in my life.

I'm not for one moment suggesting that we all have to like everything she makes, agree with everything etc. But my goodness, a lot of these complaints lack basic common sense.

For example....

People whining that her book is expensive and its a "rip-off".
Have you seen the size of it?!
Common sense should tell you that a book of THAT size, with an epic amount of pages, each one very carefully graphic designed and illustrated, in full COLOUR no less is hardly going to be cheap. I'd say its a very reasonable price indeed.

Another example is that people are saying the book has no "trigger warnings". Apparently they'll never forgive EA for it. I'm sorry, but come on, seriously? It is NO secret at all that the book is about mental illness, suicide, cutting, meds, doctors, asylums etc. No secret whatsoever. It hardly needs a warning tag, the content is not exactly shrouded in mystery.

Like I said, by all means have an opinion and feel free - you ARE free - to go against the popular opinion. But really, a little basic common sense goes a long way. I honestly feel like some of these complaints were just made for attention.



Yea I agree. That book is massive. I mean it's not the size of Harry Potter or the Inheritance Cycle hard cover books but 266 pgs of high quality glossy paper and hard cover! It could go for a lot more*shrugs* I'm happy with my purchase anyways.

And the people saying the book needed a trigger warning...there is a warning in the inside front cover and if they missed that how could they miss the big heart with an X with the title "Cutting Diary" across the front of it in red? Maybe they didn't expect it to be so detailed or something *shrugs* I honestly didn't know there was going to be talk of cutting so I was rather surprised when I came to that part but she has said we'd learn lots that we'd never expect.

I also don't think we should just lover everything 100% I mean there's topics on the forum about songs we don't care for and a lot of people don't care for the FLAG wig (I think that's changing but eh)

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I think its fantastic to have a strong opinion, but here's what really scares me:

Some people are muffins. Some people are fanatical. The fanatics scare me.
They become SO obsessed that they almost forget to take care of their
own lives because they're too obsessed with delving into EA's, taking
everything personally, blowing up drama etc....

By all means, love an artist. But don't let them be your whole world...

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We'll I'll just say this.

Until you meet her at a VIP or whatnot, you really have no idea how sweet she is. :) At the Chicago show, I did tell her and Melissa how I noticed a big change in Em's attitude towards different things and that's when she grabbed Melissa and whispered "It's because of this girl!"

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